Parenting

A Solution For A Very Lonely Man

James was a very sad man. He lived alone in a tiny little house. He had three cats that were like his children. James had never been married. He probably never would be. James seemed to have a lot of trouble making friends. He had a hard time talking to people, especially women. He wondered why this was. He wanted to be friendly. He wanted to find someone to share the rest of his life. One day James was at the doctor’s office when he heard a woman talking about how her therapist had really helped her cope with life better. James wondered if talking to someone would help him too. He asked the doctor if He could recommend someone to share his feelings and thoughts with. The doctor recommended Dr. Summerton, even setting up an appointment for James the next week. James was scared at first. What would he do if the doctor thought he was crazy? James decided he had to take that chance. He went to see Dr. Summerton. He found Him very easy to talk to. Dr. Summerton asked James to tell him about his family. James shared stories of his childhood with the doctor. The doctor listened very closely, taking notes as James told things he had never actually said before. James’ childhood had not been great. His Dad left when he was only four. His Mom worked all the time to support them. He was home alone a lot. After a few sessions like this, Dr. Summerton said he thought he knew what part of James’ problem was. James was afraid to let anyone get close because he was dealing with parental abandonment issues. The only people that had been close in his life were his parents. His Dad left, never looking back. His Mom worked constantly and was not there when James needed her the most. James didn’t want to let someone in for fear he would only be let down again. This actually made a lot of sense to James. He was happy to know that there was an actual reason he was so withdrawn. Dr Summerton promised James that he could work through these issues. There was hope for Him to get past the past and move on to a bright and fulfilling future. James was so happy. He was determined to deal with his issues and make many new friends. Who knew, maybe he would even find himself a girlfriend.